Sisterhood Has Power

A young woman sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with an elderly woman. As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the elderly woman stirred the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon the young woman.

Women Collage3“Don’t forget “Sisterhood” she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. It is the fellowship among women that is more important as you get older. No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need woman fellowship. Remember to go to places with them now and then; do things with them.’

‘Remember that “Sisterhood” means ALL the women…your girlfriends, your daughters, and all your other women friends and relatives too. ‘You’ll need other women. Women always do.’

What a funny piece of advice!’ the young woman thought. Haven’t I just gotten married? Haven’t I just joined the couple-world? I’m now a married woman, for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!’

But she listened to the elderly woman. She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that the elderly woman really knew what she was talking about.

As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sister fellowships are the mainstays of her life.After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I’ve learned:


  • Time passes
  • Life happens.
  • Distance separates.
  • Children grow up.
  • Jobs come and go.
  • Love waxes and wanes.
  • Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do.
  • Hearts break.
  • Parents die.
  • Colleagues forget favors.
  • Careers end.

AND……… There’s Power In Sisterhood

Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you. A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you…Or come in and carry you out. Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, Grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we need each other still. Remember to do something special today that will empower and up lift another woman.

What makes or breaks a woman is not what people think of her,but what she thinks of herself ~ Seyi Eyiayo


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